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“Oh，Pa，”criedScarlettimpatiently，“ifImarriedhim，I’dchangeallthat!”
“Oh，youwould，wouldyounow”saidGeraldtestily，shootingasharplookather.“Thenit’slittleenoughyouareknowingofanymanliving，letaloneAshley.Nowifehaseverchangedahusbandonewhit，anddon’tyoubeforgettingthat.AndasforchangingaWilkes—God’snightgown，daughter!Thewholefamilyisthatway，andthey’vealwaysbeenthatway.Andprobablyalwayswill.Itellyouthey’rebornqueer.LookatthewaytheygotearinguptoNewYorkandBostontohearoperasandseeoilpaintings.AndorderingFrenchandGermanbooksbythecratefromtheYankees!AndtheretheysitreadinganddreamingthedearGodknowswhat，whenthey’dbebetterspendingtheirtimehuntingandplayingpokeraspropermenshould.”
以上摘自美国小说《飘》
以上文字很有意思，特別是Scarlett的父亲一句:……没有哪个妻子能够成功改变丈夫一厘一毫……，太有意思了，东西方文化虽不同，人之本性相同，本性天生而来，要改变本性是不能的，有的只是对于本性的约束***。
男人和女人结合，本质是本性的互相理解和接纳，但不是互相改变。
〈待续〉